Delhi Boy’s reply to a letter from a Madrasan

This is in response to the letter by a Madrasan, dated September 10, 2011. Please go through the following link for better understanding of the post.

Dear Madrasan,

Sat-sri-akal from Delhi! Apologies first of all for calling you with that name. You left me with no better choice since that was how you signed off. Anyway to begin with, I read your letter and was pleased at how your sense of humor has improved. It was the most Racist, inferiority-complex driven and frustrated-with-not-being-able-to-adjust-with-life kind of letter that I read. I must appreciate the time and effort you might have put in to meet 2% of the people in Delhi and stereo-typing the rest of the city on its basis. I was thunderstruck to have come-across how shamelessly you rave about Delhiites disliking you for your color when you fail, at the same time, to notice that despite that, Delhi boys approach you at your friends’ parties and try using the same pick-up lines that they generally use. Yes, SUVs and nightclubs. Yes, we never think of you as SOUTH INDIANS and treat you the same way as we treat SOUTH DELHIITES.

I’m sorry if I and my fellow Delhiites or Punjabis dress in a way that is more sophisticated, presentable, and acceptable than the way our male counterparts dress in lungis and white shirts, stained and odoured with rasam and lemon rice trickling down in fine rivulets, alongside the beads of sweat on your forearms and finding their way to your shirts as you completely ignore the invention of a spoon, the word that usually S stands for in every pre-kindergarten book. I’m not sure if I should go any further talking about the man-boobs that 90% of South Indian men have which I’m sure are no match to the unshapely leading ladies in your films. Which reminds me of us having better things to do in life than block road traffic and climb buildings to bathe a certain Rajnikant with milk at the release of his films. Nothing against your kind of cinema, but pls ask you film-makers too take a lesson from Newton and learn a thing or two about Gravitation, which they tend to ignore while choreographing action scenes. And what did you talk about women empowerment? We come from a land that has produced a former woman IPS officer, a woman Prime-Minister who grew up and lived all her life in Delhi, a CM who has been re-elected for a third consecutive term, and I’m sure after flaunting your education and potential to crack the IITs you must know that its the “people of Delhi” who vote for the Assembly elections. I’m not sure if you have ever come across a real Punjabi woman who had the heart to kiss a Bhagat Singh goodbye to serve his country at the prime of his youth rathar than asking him to go to England and pursue ‘higher studies.’ I don’t need to tell you, presuming you read the news-paper regularly now that you mentioned education as important, that how many Punjabis actually join the armed forces and lay their lives to make you feel safer. Yes, making missiles in a lab might take your kind of a brain, but firing them and facing them, takes our kind of balls.

Since you requested, I won’t mention anything about how are taxes are used by Amma in buying those 10000 sarees and 750 pairs of shoes that she owns. Maybe Bhangra and Gurdas Mann don’t interest you, because you don’t care about any other form of art than that you know or perhaps just due to not being able to understand them, but I do appreciate a Bharatnayam performance as much as a Gidda or and MS Subbulaxmi composition, as much as a ghazal. If there were to be such discriminatory letter contests, then I’d also like to read a letter from a Northie working in an Infosys or a TCS placed in your part of the country and his pains when he is discriminated against; when your people pretend not to know any Hindi or English and don’t even give road directions. But what am I saying, your own letter shows how much you hate ‘all’ of us on account of meeting ‘some’ of us. Maybe you have mastered the art of cracking IITs but atleast we don’t, unlike some of your Southern states (now that you are representing all of south India), fight over water from rivers or demand a separate country of ours. We are proud to be Indians, mind it!

Since you also mentioned something about ‘sambhar chawaling our way into your life’, let me clear it for you, thanks for the offer, but NO, Thank You! I don’t want to bring a marriage proposal to your house which is turned down cuz I don’t have enough coconut trees in my backyard or my purity of ‘religion’ is not proved in a secular country, despite the fact that I’m clearly in love with your daughter and capable enough to take care of her. Yeah, that’s a different issue that your daughter is no Sri Devi and even my distant neighbor from across the park is more beautiful than Sri Devi, but still.

For someone who has problem with someone saying “peerents” instead of “parents”, I would humbly request you to look in the mirror and spell ‘p-a-r-e-n-t-s’ and try (just try, because I know you’ll miserably fail it) not saying “pee-yay-waar-yen-tee-yes.” And also while naming your kids next time, remember that you are giving him a name and not his whole CV and family background information; let it be a name only and not a paragraph in itself.

With a lot of love, a formal hug and a flying kiss (I’d rather have tandoori chicken),

Yours Truly,

A Delhi Boy

20 thoughts on “Delhi Boy’s reply to a letter from a Madrasan

  1. Brilliantly written.. 😀
    Though you’re toed the thin line a wee bit and you know that too ;)… I guess she totally deserved it. 😀
    Cheers.. 🙂

  2. well written bro.. though i think you could have wrapped it up in one single line….tell the women to go read chaitan bhagats ‘2 states’. 😛

  3. Haha..Nicely written…although I guess you wasted your time by writing such a long reply. Such people (the chick who started all this) should be ignored completely…because all she needed was popularity…and we are giving her exactly that by discussing about her utter dumbness. 😛

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  5. Thank you for posting this. When I read somewhere that a woman wrote a “letter” to a Delhi boy, I was expecting a pleasantly funny, witty, insightful read. Instead the very first paragraph had the following words:

    “…autistic 3 year old on crack..”

    After that, it was impossible to take her writings any seriously. Why would someone joke about autism? It takes someone extremely insensitive, completely clueless to do so. From her writing it is evident she thinks shamelessly imitating an American style of writing (with the name dropping and pop culture references that are, more often than not, irrelevant to us here in India), makes her “sound” cool. But her immaturity shows.

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  7. Sorry man the heart is right, but the words are not. Its too preachy. I didn’t even read the whole thing, as apposed to the one this is in reply to which I did. Take it from someone who blogs herself this was not AS kick ass as you might think. I’ve read some awesome replies to certain outrageous blogposts, but this was not one of them. Hopefully you will take this as constructive criticism and not write it off as the rantings of a woman spurred, because dude I’m a Punjabi girl myself and I promise I’m not out to get you. Above and beyond that you can choose not to read this but then you might just inadvertently prove Ms. Madrasan right.

  8. By all means, it’s great that he’s responded and is free to do so; but I believe the initial open letter to a Delhi boy was not necessarily an attack on Punjabi culture. She in no way, shape, or form was referring entirely to Punjabi people. She was referring to a specific type of Delhi boy who often happens to be of Punjabi descent. While she could have laid off the comparisons between the North and South, I believe her overall point was that she was fed up with the boisterous, gaudy, and pompous attitude exhibited by someone she cared about.

    Firing back with comments on South Indians just further pushes Ms. Madarsan’s views in place. She’s stating that this specific type of person is in fact smug, quick to judge other cultures not like his own, and well, is superficial (as exhibited by one of your first points, something along the lines of, “I’m sorry that we dress better than you.”

    Whoever wrote this, you took the bait. You really took the bait.

    A G W

  9. There are a lot of grammatical errors through, but it’s still funny…also if you think you’re an Indian and the said segregation does not matter, then why the letter… also you made a very crucial mistake…see she said women are equal down south, but you mentioned women who had become PM and CM..see equality is not putting someone on a pedestal or looking down upon them..its being equal..and by your letter it can be inferred that you only respect women who are superior to you..that’s sexism..and need to look at the 2001 statistical report on development, gender ration, income ratio 🙂

  10. Started out funny, lost its charm halfway through. Clearly, Ms.Madrasan’s initiative has reached her target audience. She wins gold for that. And you took the bait and proved her right, point by point. She wins gold, again.
    – Indian (Drumroll)

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